Over the past few years, we’ve lost something precious—something many of us didn’t even realize we were missing until it was gone. Community. Not the kind you “follow” or “like” online, but the kind where someone borrows a cup of sugar, where kids ride bikes together down the block, where spontaneous laughter rings out over a shared meal.
We’ve all been there. You make a plan, set some goals, or even consider doing something as simple as going outside, and your brain responds with a solid NOPE.
It can be frustrating, especially when you feel like you should be doing something productive, active, or at least engaged with the world around you. But here’s the thing: Sometimes, resisting action is a signal that you need a different approach—or even a little space to be still.
In life’s toughest moments, joy can feel out of reach. Yet creative expression—through art, music, writing, and more—often brings light to even the darkest places. Why does creating spark joy, and why is that joy essential when times are tough?
We’ve all done it: someone’s talking to us, and we’re nodding along, but we’re thinking about something completely different—like what’s for dinner or how we’ll escape this conversation to refill our drink. Sure, we heard them, but did we actually listen?
Effective communication isn’t just about the words you use—it’s about understanding the motivations behind the people you’re speaking to. What drives your team members? What do they need in order to feel valued and fulfilled? When you tap into the underlying motivations of your team, you can transform the way you lead. Understanding what makes each person tick allows you to communicate in a way that resonates, creating more meaningful and impactful interactions.
Leadership isn’t just about guiding a team during calm times—it’s about steering the ship when the waters are rough. How you communicate under stress can define the trajectory of your team’s performance and morale. The pressure to make the right decisions and keep everyone focused is enormous, but confident leadership in those moments can make all the difference.
Ambiguity in communication can create confusion, reduce morale, and hinder progress. For leaders, it’s essential to communicate clearly in all forms—whether you’re delegating tasks, setting expectations, or giving feedback. Clear communication ensures that everyone understands their roles and responsibilities, which fosters efficiency and helps teams achieve shared goals.
Empathy is one of the most important traits any leader can develop. By putting yourself in someone else’s shoes, you not only build stronger connections but also create an environment where your team can thrive. In today’s fast-paced, high-pressure workplaces, empathy is often the key to unlocking your team’s full potential.
Life is filled with transitions, whether we like it or not. From childhood to adulthood, starting a new job, or even moving to a new city, transitions happen to all of us. And let’s be honest—they’re rarely easy. It doesn’t matter how old you are or what stage of life you’re in; change brings uncertainty, and uncertainty often brings stress. But if there’s one thing we know for sure, it’s that transitions are inevitable.
What if I told you that anything can be a game? Whether you’re a CEO, a parent, or a teacher, adding an element of play can transform how you lead and manage others. It’s more than just adding fun—play invites creativity, engagement, and collaboration, all of which are essential in making tasks easier and more enjoyable. The secret lies in tapping into game mechanics.
There have been a recent slew of books and articles written about connection and conversation. It appears that everyone has finally realized that the damage from this combination of the massive rise of social media and our isolation because of a global pandemic might have affected our ability to talk to each other. We are, as a species, designed to be in community with each other, which does require, to quote the Irish, a bit of “the gift of the gab.”
Our systems are designed to experience the world through a multi-sensory experience. But, in our current crazy world, our ancient minds don’t actually know how to understand what is happening.
